hey.
random topic i guess.
well.
i think friends come and go.
some friends come and go like seasons.
when they think they need us.
they will come.
when they think that they don't need us.
there they go.
having a friend also means that you need to have a lot of commitment.
it does not mean that you only come to them if you really need someone for the day.
and if you want your friends to understand you.
first you need to understand them.
its only fair that way.
imagine if you are the type where you only come to your friends when you need something.
how do you think they will feel?
obviously they will feel like they are being used.


"being a really true friend is not being someone who needs to look at the calendar to make time for others but rather being someone who need not even consult the calendar."

and to relate to this paragraph above,
i think that most of my friends are so busy with their own life.
they appear to be free now but in the end they are still busy.
no matter how advance you inform them.
they will still be busy on the actual day.
sometimes i wonder.
what is the thing that really makes them busy.
weeks and months of not meeting.
but just for a day.
their time can't be spent.
well. i just hope that we could spent more time together friends.

ps.i miss all my friends.